So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please)
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#1: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: Bikinifiend,
Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 7:09 am
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Not super comfortable with disclosing my exact location as of yet, but it's safe to say I live in a very southern, conservative, religious area.
The thing is, I know that there are others in my area that are into this thing, there pretty much have to be (I think). I'd like to be able to talk to them, and hang out with them, but I really don't know how to find them. It's not the sort of thing you can just up and ask someone about in polite conversation.
So what do you guys do? Do you just totally keep it to yourselves? Or have you managed to find some outlet for discussion and openness? I mean, this forum does help a bit, but what I am looking for is actual interpersonal communication and understanding.
I know this question is a bit heavy and serious, but it's been bugging me alot recently, and I could use some advice.
Thanks in advance, Bikini
#2: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: Rescue, Location: ALABAMA
Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 4:46 pm
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North Alabama here :)
#3: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: sv_swinger, Location: CA, USA
Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 5:56 pm
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San Francisco Bay area (California) here.
#4: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: pantycrazy, Location: PantyLand
Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 3:22 pm
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SF Bay area here as well. I keep my personal panty fetish to myself, with my wife the only other one that knows a little about it.
#5: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: grannypanty1, Location: pacific nw.
Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 3:57 pm
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Guess..find some gay men..at least they would be open to the bi courious single and married men whom dress with them. Take it that getting undies is still from panty-drawers? Not able to go to department store and buy off rack? Why some of us are pushing for the chat room again. Closest we can come to interpersonal friendship is with private chat or phone chat.
Boils down to someday your going to have to admit it too some of the bible thumpers when cornered. All the secrets and jacking off has a way of being discovered by family and friends in the long run. Remember your fetish is only the 1% of the fetish iceberg. There are a hell of alot of pentacostals doing alot more freaky things then trying on a nice silky Vanity Fair slip...lol
Keep in touch alot of us guys are in the same boat.
#6: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: Cajunbear3, Location: TN
Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 10:51 am
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I too live in the "Bible Belt". West TN to be exact. Yes, it is rather difficult to talk on the outside to someone about your desires and wearing women's clothes. But one of the best ways to do this is through this and other websites like this one to hookup with others like us who want to share and be more open to someone else. Willing to help if you want!
#7: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: LoveSatinPanties, Location: Texas
Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 1:11 pm
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I also live in part of the Bible Belt, conservative Panhandle of Texas, where I'm sure that a man wearing panties would be ostracized severely. Although, I'm sure that I'm not the only man in this area that wears, I just haven't found any that will admit to it.
So I have to keep my proclivity a secret from all but my lady friend. At first it was a surprise to her, but it didn't take long for her to accept it. She enjoys buying for me and I enjoy buying for her.
My advice would be, if you are married, discuss this openly with your wife. Ask her if you could just try on a pair of hers for fun. You might be pleasantly surprised at her reaction.
If you're single, wear them when you feel comfortable doing so. If you have a girlfriend, try the same discussion with her.
Hope you come to a successful resolution to your dilemma.
#8: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: pretty_in_pink,
Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 2:52 pm
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East TN
#9: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: nylononme, Location: South Carolina
Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 12:42 pm
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Upstate South Carolina here. I know exactly what you're talking about. I have to hide my panty fetish from everyone, including my wife who isn't even from the Bible Belt. It would be nice to find someone to talk to about all this, but it's not likely where I live. That's why I turn to sites like this.
#10: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: Bikinifiend,
Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 6:36 am
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Anytime you guys want to talk, let me know.....we can meet up on aim or something....I think it'd be good to talk openly for once.
#11: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: Annabelle,
Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 7:06 am
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You should try and share it with your wife you could have so much fun.
I found that my closest friends have been great to us with our fetish. You just know the people you can tell. When we told our friends they justed smiled then started to tell us about theirs. You don't realize who many different types of fetish there are out there. All this has help us to carry this magazine on and build our own pantie sites too. But sometimes being secret makes it more of a turn wondering if you are going to get caught. Don't you agree.
Annabelle
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#12: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: Bikinifiend,
Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 7:13 am
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indeed I do
#13: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: kd4uvc, Location: alabama
Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 8:09 pm
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8O I do not understand the problem you are having. Do you want to wear panties or do you want to have sex with a man? Wearing panties has not been a problem in the Bible Belt with me. Where I shop, most of the sales associates say they have a large group of men which buy clothing for themselves, lingerie, dresses, women's clothing in general. They try it on to ensure good fit. Most of the places I shop has no problem due to the fact a sale is a sale. I have been measured for a bra in Boaz, AL. This is the place which until a very few years ago had a sign which stated if you were not black, don't be caught here after dark. I am open about wearing lingerie. But, if you looked at me. You would not think that I wear panties either. What I am saying, be nice when buying, do not push yourself if they do not want to help on sales. Relax.
#14: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: skimpypanties, Location: north carolina
Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 6:56 pm
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I live in north carolina, and do a bit of travel in the mid-state area. i would like to get together with another for panty fun. i enjoy skimpy string panties, and occasionally wear hose and belt . if you are interested, i will send you pics. the first time though, i would like to play with just 1 other.
#15: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: willinsatin,
Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 10:42 pm
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I can assure you that there are plenty of us guys in the South. Obviously the best way to get connected is through sites like this and others, then you can PM or email and possibly meet in person. It works.
#16: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: cracklewalk, Location: SF Bay Area, CA
Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:25 am
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SF Bay Area.
Don't ask and don't tell.
#17: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: PinkPenny, Location: ILL
Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:40 pm
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It all depends on what you want to do with people who love panties. There are some kinky people out there. Just take care who you meet with.
#18: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: pantyguy01,
Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 5:16 pm
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I hope I am not offensive with this but SF bay folks even responding to this thread is hilarious to me. I was born out there in Contra Costa, but really don't know a whole lot about it except that you can pretty much be accepted no matter who you are. If you disagree, try moving to the SE. In my town, we have a large (relatively) gay/bi/whatever crowd because we are the largest city in ~100 mi. You would still be likely to get your ass kicked for wearing panties that showed above your jeans unless you kicked his ass first :p
#19: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: kd4uvc, Location: alabama
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 12:29 am
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I just ignored the SF area. They have NO concept of the south, just what the hollywood movie crackheads dreamed up during a drug high. You have to live here for years to understand.
#20: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: marshallW, Location: West Palm Beach FL.
Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:36 pm
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I live in Toledo OH and i have had long time friends give me a hard time about it I personly just ignor there coments. I work construction and men in my feild have to be masculent i have worn then to work and all most fired for it have bean asked not to do to a posebal loss of work from Contractors so i wont any more but fiending mens underwear that are as comfertbal as womens is imposbal unless some one knows some thing i don't I am willing to try any thing I have tryed Boxers & Bierfs but they do not have the same suport or feel :( I would allso like to meet others in the Toledo airea that have the same hang up but no one wants to talk about it and the thing is ever one has a fetish of some kiend and most more then one so I feel your pane we are all so stupid we have to hide be hind masks and then to make our selves feel better about oure selves tear down others to lifed oure selves up and say see i am not so bad look at what they do and to me this is all a bunch of bull sh*t and in all the time the Earth has bean here this has not Changed and will not till we can get oure eyes of our selves and on the ppl & the things that rilly mater how we treat one another :D
#21: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: joeinnoho, Location: Southwestern Missouri
Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 8:23 pm
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I'm currently living in southwestern Missouri and I've not found wearing panties to be a problem here. I was shopping at a WalMart in Branson West recently and the only other person in the panty department was a guy who was obviously shopping for himself. I don't think people care as much as you think, even in the south.
#22: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: cracklewalk, Location: SF Bay Area, CA
Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 2:23 am
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The SF Bay Area is not a bad place to be despite how much more we pay for gas.
Just act like you know what you're doing and no one will bother you. And that rule works anywhere you are.
#23: Re: So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please) Author: mulletman3388,
Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 3:47 am
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mojive desert here
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