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#1: married panty wearers Author: zanteboy,
Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 6:20 pm
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Hi new to this site, so don't be to hard if i get things wrong.
I love wearing my wifes panties etc, but would love her to know about it. Would love to make love with her while wearing, if anyone else has a wife who knows about your wearing, please advise me how you brought up the subject and how she reacted!!!
#2: Re: married panty wearers Author: imapantylover2,
Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 6:43 pm
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it took me a long time to dream this up..but it worked
she loves to wear my t shirts and since she is large chested she stretches them out so i asked her not to wear them anymore. she said no so i told her if she did not stop i would wear her panties. she thought i was kidding
i did and she was quite suprised..she kind of liked the reaction. i wear with her any time i want....this was over a time span of a few months
it took a lot of time but it worked for me
#3: Re: married panty wearers Author: zanteboy,
Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 6:47 pm
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thanks for that advise, unfortunatly my wife is abit smaller than me, so will have to think of something else!!!
#4: Re: married panty wearers Author: garth003, Location: Pa
Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 11:30 pm
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I would suggest just being honest. When me and my wife me i told her i liked panties. she was ok with it cause it was only once in a while. When i decided i wanted to wear 24/7 she was not sure what to think about it. Now two years later she likes me in my panties. She still won't go shopping with me for them but she is ok with me wearing nothing but panties.
Good luck
#5: Re: married panty wearers Author: cracklewalk, Location: SF Bay Area, CA
Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:05 am
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Wow.
I guess it really depends on how good of a relationship you have with your wife. This could cause a sore spot between you but, as earlier stated, honesty is the policy. Make sure you tell her that this revelation doesn't change anything. It's who you are and you weren't quite sure how to tell her. Take it from there and let us know how it goes.
C.
#6: Re: married panty wearers Author: snif,
Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 9:24 am
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i told her before we married. we were on vacation and while fucking i told her i wanted to fuck her while i wore her g string.
a few week latter i showed her all i had collected.
now I wear when ever I like and she helps collect panties with me.
#7: Re: married panty wearers Author: married25, Location: NC
Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 6:52 pm
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I've been infatuated with panties for a long time. I love to see my wife in panties, and love to rub my hands all over her panty covered ass. And I love to have sex with her wearing them. When she starts getting underssed for sex, she reaches down to pull her panties off, and I tell her to keep them on, so she does, although if it were up to her, they would be off. So, when I told her I love to jack-off with them, and wear them, I guess it wasn't that big of a suprise. But she still isn't into me wearing them...even after 25 years. When I wear them to bed, and she reaches over to cop a feel, if she feels panties, she rolls over & goes to sleep. Sometimes, I'll ask her to take her panties off & jack me off with them, and she'll give them to me, but won't participate.
It's really frustrating because I want her to share this with her, but she continues to dislike it. Good luck with yours, and for all you guys out there who's wife is into it with you...I envy you all.
#8: Re: married panty wearers Author: PinkPenny, Location: ILL
Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 7:09 pm
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Being a female when my husband told me he enjoyed wearing panties I was ok with his need to wear panties. We sat down and talked about how he felt when wearing panties. Most women think first is my spouse gay. Second they think it is the panties that turn them on during sex instead of them. I want my husband to be happy. So, if you would like to share your need to wear panties with your wife you have to be prepared to address all of her questions. It has not been a issue ever since he told me. In fact I like to buy panties for him when I am out shopping. The one thing that may come up later is he collection grows and grows. I know just looking and buying panties is all part of his fun.
#9: Re: married panty wearers Author: PanLovNor, Location: Ontario
Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:26 pm
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I think it is a hit or miss kind of thing. I told my wife about 3 weeks ago that I wanted to wear hers...we've been married for 15 years now. Since then EVERYTHING has been great. She understands that it is a preference that I have and that it is harmless...in fact it has greatly enhanced our private lives and she has even bought some special panties just for me. Comes down to this...how much trust is there in the relationship? I should have trusted more that she'd be cool with it instead of waiting this long.
Good luck
#10: Re: married panty wearers Author: PinkPenny, Location: ILL
Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:50 pm
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Good for you!! I think you should buy your own panties. When my husband gets start wearing some of my panties I like to wear on a daily basis and can't find them because he is wearing them It can be a pain. So buy your own and every one will be happy.
#11: Re: married panty wearers Author: cracklewalk, Location: SF Bay Area, CA
Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:50 am
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I told my wife the first week we were dating. No secrets.
If she wasn't going to be understanding about it then that would be the end of us.
#12: Re: married panty wearers Author: Size6Bikini,
Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 12:20 am
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I'm 99% sure my wife knows of my fetish, but it's never been discussed. Honestly, I'm not sure if I want her to know. She brought it up early in our relationship & she said she'd be devistated if another man of hers were into panties, so I stopped messing with them completley. I think it'd be hot to check her out in a sexy pair of panties, instead of the cotton hi-cut briefs she always wears, but I still don't want to bring up the subject. For me, panties are something I like to enjoy on my own.
#13: Re: married panty wearers Author: Freeform, Location: Colorado
Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 6:39 am
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I told my wife that I rather see her in panties than naked, that I loved the mystery and also that i really liked panties. She said most men like to see a woman in panties, and I said No I mean I REALLY like panties. She asked me what i meant and I told her that I not only like to see them on women, but i love the way they feel on me. She said she understood the about how nice they feel and didnt see anything wrong with it. The next thing she did was take me shopping and bought me some panties and pantyhose. She said if you like the way panties feel, you will love how pantyhose feel all over your legs too. She was right!
#14: Re: married panty wearers Author: beckyandstu, Location: west mids UK
Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 3:37 pm
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i guessed long before stu told me he liked to wear my panties, he told me about his fetish and i agreed to let him wear womans pants at weekends, now he wears 99% of the time, its become quite normal now and i still find it sexy to see him in them, so my advice is ask your wife if you can play in her panties
#15: Re: married panty wearers Author: size10plus, Location: home
Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:10 pm
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I may have been lucky with my wife. I wore panties off and on before meeting her. I prefer big panties. One day she asked me to try on her bikinis. Of course, I did. She liked the way they looked on me and liked me wearing them when we had sex. She didn't know at the time about my previous panty history. Anyway, I'd go out with her wearing panties all the time. After we were engaged and went to visit the mother in law, I started exploring big panties again. I'd didn't work the big panties into our relationship until about 10 yrs into our marriage. It's 25yrs together and now it is a regular thing.
#16: Re: married panty wearers Author: Irmatrude, Location: SW USA
Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 7:10 am
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In my first marriage it took a while but when I finally asked while we were in bed if I could wear her panties she reluctantly allowed me. It lead to great sex probably because I was just that much more excited and willing to try anything she might like. It soon became a regular thing and expanded outside the bedroom.
The down side was the fear it would be used against me when she decided the marriage was over. It was not.
My second marriage was just up front. She moved in with me and so knew about my collection early on. I was more comfortable with my passion and so hid nothing. We now share the same panty drawers and buy for each other. Each situation is different as has been noted. Wile both initially worried that I was gay, the increased bedroom excitement and my interest in them soon dispelled that concern.
#17: Re: married panty wearers Author: Cajunbear3, Location: TN
Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 12:16 pm
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I let my wife know several years ago right after she had bought some Danskin panties. I loved the feel so much that when I had gotten her so wet from the foreplay I asked her if I could try them on and see how they felt. She readily agreed and when I got even harder than I was already she agreed to go buy me my own the next day. We expanded to allowing me to wear pantyhose, garterbelts, and stockings but no other women's clothing. I am comfortable with myself that I wear panties nearly 24/7 now. She enjoys my satin ones in the bed over my cotton and/or lace.
#18: Re: married panty wearers Author: pantyguy01,
Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 4:46 pm
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A lot of this topic is really helpful to me, so thank you all! A lot of it disturbs me too :p My wife and I don't "allow" each other to do things, although we realize there are consequences to our actions. We are both adults and do (mostly) what we want. The biggest issue I have with not talking to my wife about my panty fetish is my fear of her telling someone else. Not that she would do it to hurt me, but she has no sense of decorum in social situations, lol. :oops:
I love her because of it, too. I consider myself a "straight shooter/tough guy" but I am afraid when my wife is around my boss or other people because she says things that could be considered rude or mean, even though it would hurt her to know that it was taken that way. For her to talk about it in front of our friends would not be something I could handle. I am a manly man type, king of the castle and all. (Don't get me wrong, I don't boss her around beat her or the kids or any of that). That is the reason I have not shared some things about my childhood that are painful to me. I am hoping I can come to trust her with that stuff in the future.
Thanks for the site....you might not know how much you are helping people. :)
#19: Re: married panty wearers Author: kd4uvc, Location: alabama
Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 12:41 am
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Pantyguy, then you are lying to her. Honesty is the only means. I am not currently married but am engaged. I told her from the start. I am a manly man, biker, hunter, ex-military. I do not have the right to dictate to her. I fought for rights and to protect my rights, I still protect rights of others. I also realized when I started being serious with her I must be honest with her. I do not hide things from her and discuss anything she wishes to discuss. We both have thing we like and do not like. She is accepting with my panties. Honesty and no secrets!!!
#20: Re: married panty wearers Author: marshallW, Location: West Palm Beach FL.
Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 6:28 pm
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I have bean married 2 x My first wife when i told her was pissed and i had a hard 4 yrs with her but we never had a good relationship she Devorst me but not cos of Panties we had more probs then that .
Wife 2 I told her after we had bean dating for 8-9 mo and befor we got married she was and still ok with it and from time to time she will go shopping with we and will pic some out for me to wear for her witch is gr8 so if you have a good relationship and you are ok with some of her short comeings and you think she is understanding then by all means shere this with her and i hope it brings you closer to gether good luck and lets us know how it go's thanks 
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#21: Re: married panty wearers Author: darling2u, Location: singapore
Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 6:16 am
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My wife 100% ok and before married, she already knew that I like to wear girl's panties. We used to shop together and we share the same sizes. I should say we have over 100 pairs of panties of all pattern and design in the drawer. I just simply do not like men underwears, not even those panty made for men and I have nothing now.
#22: Re: married panty wearers Author: nylonpantypleaser, Location: Florida
Posted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 6:37 pm
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My wife didn't find out until she came in the house unexpectedly and caught me JO in a pair of nylon bikinis...She has accepted this as part of our lives and it has enhanced our sex life...she's even asked me to wear hers from time to time.
The really cool thing is she likes to stroke in them and grabs a big handful of nylon panty when we make love which drives me nuts.
So yeah she is cool with it.
#23: Re: married panty wearers Author: PantyPeter, Location: California
Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:11 am
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I was afraid to talk to her about it, but one night I put on a pair of her black VF nylon panties. When we started getting romantic, she took my pants off and was rather surprised to see me straining against the silky fabric, but was really cool about it. She said I looked sexier in her panties than she did! Since then she picks out panties for me to wear if I don't wear them first! We both wear panties during sex and it's ultrasexy. Sometimes she likes to jerk me off in big panties to see them stretch out and watch the gooey mess at the end. I'm sooo okay with that!
I did the same thing to my first wife and she was not so cool. She said she thought it was crossdressing and it creeped her out. That just turned me on then when I wore her panties secretly. She knew I was doing it eventually and then I started to wear them in front of her and she accepted it. Wearing panties didn't have anything to do with our divorce and she says I'm the sexiest man she's had, so it must not have creeped her out too bad. Go for it man, she might get into it!
#24: Re: married panty wearers Author: pantiesrme, Location: albuquerque,new mexico
Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 12:14 am
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Ive keep it secret for thirtyfive years?I would get a pair out of anyones drawers i could.One day i ask her if women panties were conforble.see said yes why?Idont like the way my jockys fit and cut into my legs.I said iam not gay.but do you think i would be conforble in a pair of womens panties.I left taht alone for her too think about.Then one day while at the store,i said lets go over here.It was the panty section.Igot a large size black pair.They were Tangas.and said what do you think?should i buy them and see if there better.Yes go ahead.Alright i was in.We went home and put then on.now my cock grew like it never had in a long while.We fucked right then,I pull my cock out and fucked her,the lace rubed her lips and got her reaaly hot.Now we both go and buy them,the first thing we do is fuck when we get home.Iam going too someday get her in the dressing room at the store and jam it home there.
#25: Re: married panty wearers Author: Silkypantywearer,
Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 9:02 pm
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My wife loves me wearing my panties.
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