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#1: Buying Fetish? Author: turandot123, Location: Milford, VA

Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 9:46 pm
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:?: I seem to have as much of a fetish for buying panties as for wearing them and masturbating with them. I was in college before I got the nerve to buy my first pair of panties. (Stole several of them before that time.) I kept buying and otherwise acquiring panties for years up until I got married. Decided the wisest course of action at that time was to throw them out. (Wish I had them back now!) 10 years later, I was happily divorced and started rebuilding my collection. I now have well over 1,000 panties - many of them never worn and still on the hangers.

Cruising the lingerie department looking at all the latest panties is a great turn-on for me. Of course, I prefer to be wearing panties while I'm doing it and they always get soaked with pre-cum. In larger department stores, I typically buy off the sale rack, where you can sometimes get some great bargains. I also frequent Marshalls, TJMax, and Cross-dress For Less. They tend to have very good prices indeed and, in the quantities I buy, that becomes important. Many is the time I've come out of a store with a dozen or more panties. Either the clerks think I have a very lucky girlfriend or they know what I'm really doing with them.

Once I get home, I sometimes try on the new purchases although, maybe not all of them As I say, I have many pairs that I've never tried on - I bought them just because they were particularly cute or sexy or something. I usually buy panties in my size (6) but have sometimes bought smaller panties that I know I'll never get into just because I love the look of them.

Sometimes I'll find a particular pair I like and then go on a campaign to buy them in every available color. Some years back, Warners had a line called "Colors to Go" that came in about 8 or 10 different colors. I loved the sleek, stretchy feel of the panties (80% nylon - 20% spandex) and they were wonderful to wear but I also loved the colors. There were white, pastel pink & blue, stronger shades of blue, purple, yellow, black, etc. I searched for months for a pair of the yellow ones. I must have gone to every store in a 40 mile radius. It was a most enjoyable quest. I finally found them and bought a pair, but the joy was really in the hunt rather than the acquisition.

Anyone else like shopping as much as I do?

#2: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: gary46, Location: SW Pennsylvania

Posted: Thu Nov 23, 2006 3:13 am
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I do not have a buying fetish, but I do love to shop for panties. I look when I can. I espescially like the bikini style microfiber panties. Jockey no lines are quickly becoming my favorite. Seems like Jockey is gelling men and womens undies into one group. Jockey intimates, his and hers. Will keep shopping for panties for myself and the wife. She loves when I bring her home something elaborate. She really gets off on me finding us MATCHING undies. I get off with this also! Ya don't have to have a fetish to enjoy undies shopping!

#3: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: stephiechanfan,

Posted: Fri Nov 24, 2006 8:34 pm
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I know I have the buying fetish. I like to go to straight lingerie stores with panties on and a loose pair of jeans and a fitted shirt. I try to look for stuff on the bottom racks and hope the cute employee is looking at my g-string.

#4: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: daisymazefan, Location: California

Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 4:03 pm
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Hey yes you are just like me, don't know if I buy that many panties but hey I can not ever take a trip to Wlmart without ever stoping by the lingerie department to see what type of sexy thongs and g-string they have hanging from the racks. Things are so reasonable priced and just so sexy it turns me on!

#5: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: shinypantie,

Posted: Sun Dec 24, 2006 7:24 am
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I think what you have is an addiction to panties, and buying them...I should know as this sounds a lot like me....From the first time i tried on my younger sisters little nylon panties, to finally geting the courage to go and pretend to be buying them for my girlfriend.
Having some sweet young girl showing you all the panties in the shop is very exciting indeed ,and VERY ADDICTIVE!! 8)

#6: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: tang, Location: America-Midwest

Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 1:06 am
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My WIFE has a buying fetish. Oh my god! When satin string bikinis were still to be found in stores, she would break the bank with those babies, one 99cent pair at a time! Anything shiny that goes on her ass, she must own!
I bet that causes some jealousy on the site....don't worry guys, I appreciate her more than you can imagine! :) Hopefully I'll get some pictures up on here so you can appreciate her with me *evil grins*

#7: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: Juicy_Jessica, Location: UK but ship worldwide

Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 1:07 pm
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I am afrid to say I too have a panty fetish. I think many girls do but they don't know it. It is an expensive habit but doesn't hurt anyone - just ya credit card! If I am questioned by the sales staff I just say I am having a sex party. That shuts them up!

#8: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: prabitl,

Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 3:19 pm
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i have 4 patnties. now planing to buy more

#9: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: PinkPenny, Location: ILL

Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:35 pm
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Even though I am a women. I love to shop for panties. I like to try and find what's new.

#10: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: cdekas, Location: Indiana

Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 7:02 pm
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Love to purchase panties and undergarments of all types. Used to get extremely nervous, much more comfortable now. Buying bras is usually when I get the most curious looks. One thing I haven't purchased are the nylons for each leg, love the lacy touches at the top. I'm curious if it's necessary to have the garter connections that attach to those thingies worn just above the waist ???

#11: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: tang, Location: America-Midwest

Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 11:26 pm
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cdekas wrote:

I'm curious if it's necessary to have the garter connections that attach to those thingies worn just above the waist ???

They have thigh-highs that have rubber lined tops so that you don't need the garter belt and suspenders.

#12: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: Freeform, Location: Colorado

Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 6:25 am
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I too have a panty buying fetish. I get as much a thrill buying them as i do wearing them, well......almost. I love it when the sales ladies tell me I have great taste in panties or that they wear these kind too. I always leave a wet spot in my panties when i buy them, and always wear panties when i do shop. I love to buy bras, pantyhose and even slips for myself. Some sales women give me dirty looks but most just smile (i want to think they know why i am buying them) but love it either way. I have over 600 panties and my stash is still growing.
Freeform is a brand of panty made by Bali, and i have over 100 pairs of them, so I can relate to finding that one special panty and wanting every color and even different sizes, but I have worn every panty I have bought and have "inititated" every pair too.

#13: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: snif,

Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 2:22 am
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the wife and I are heading out saturday to buy some... for me! We"ll go some place where we can both get into the same changing room. she tells me she wants me to try on lots of them first. I'm hoping she will blow me there. I'd love to take some cummed on g string to the counter and have the girl ring me up. I'll be wearing panties when we go out. the wife already picked out what her panty boy should wear.
when we get home I'll cum in her while we both wear........

#14: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: pantyguy01,

Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 5:00 pm
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tang wrote:

My WIFE has a buying fetish. Oh my god! When satin string bikinis were still to be found in stores, she would break the bank with those babies, one 99cent pair at a time! Anything shiny that goes on her ass, she must own!

LOL, I have to admit, I am super turned on by those...the cheap ones with the elastic/gathered strings on the sides. The girl I dated when I had my 1st real relationship wore those.

#15: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: vf15012, Location: Chicago

Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 12:23 pm
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I think many of us panty lovers (or other fetishists) have a thing about not only liking panties but accumulating as many as possible. It's like an addiction as someone said above. For around 20 years I was compelled to buy panties and would do so over and over despite (beause of?) the huge amount of shame and humiliation it caused me. It felt like I was exposing my deepest, darkest secret publicly.

As a couple of panty lovers have said, shopping for panties is as much fun as wearing them. I agree. However, I am extremely bashful and self-conscious, and many times more so when it comes to panties and slips. If I am wearing panties or slips under my clothing I am constatly worried about someone finding out, no matter how carefully or fully I am dressed to hide the fact. I have always felt a great deal of humiliation and shame when shopping for panties and slips. and even need 3-4 beers in me to work up the nerve to just walk in the store.

However, more than anything it is a HUGE turn on for me. I always wear a very silky pair of panties and even a satin slip under my clothes when I shop. It isn't just a prelude to sex- it IS sex for me! :-) It's like I'm making my fetish known to all the ladies in the lingerie store. Cautiously peeking at women holding up panties or carefully looking over slips drives me wild. I try to shop either very early or late, when the shops are mostly empty because I get really embarrassed each time a new woman walks into the store or department. I feel that just my presence there is enough to announce my fetish to the world, as if I have a huge glowing sign on my forehead that shouts "panty fetish." I honsetly feel almost as if I were standing in the store in just a slip and panties.

After spending about 45 minutes browing thru and fondling racks of silky panties and slips I finally work up the nerve to bring my handful of panties and slips to the saleswoman. This is the hardest part for me, the moment of confession. It makes it exremely difficult if there are laides in line. Sometimes I get very peculiar looks, which only makes the embarrasment worse. It is an extremely intense moment when I hand her my purchases and watch her fondle and fold the silky panties and slips. By this point I have a nice wet spot in my panties and after my purchase, fly home to play with my new panties and slips.

Eventually I turned to ebay to find vintage lingeriie, perferring very specific brands and silky materials. It isn't as much fun, to be sure, but it's the only way I can get certan discontinued items. I've curtailed my panty and slip buying for now but have amassed a collection of 450 panties (all briefs and hpsters) and 200 slips so you could say I have a 'thing' about accumlating them! LOL When I was an early teen I used to fantasize about owning thousands and thousands of slips panties and bra- enough to fill three rooms. I doubt I'll make that goal but it's been fun trying! :-)

#16: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: pantymesser, Location: Colorado

Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:34 pm
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VF...:

I would love to come to Chicago and get together with you to try on some or all of those 450 panties that you have collected. You interested?

#17: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: pantymesser, Location: Colorado

Posted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:37 pm
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VF...:

I would love to come to Chicago and get together with you to try on some or all of those 450 panties that you have collected. You interested?

#18: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: PanLovNor, Location: Ontario

Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 3:15 am
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I can't walk into a department store or mall without going into the lingerie section or into the local lasenza....I love to buy them...

#19: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: paulmetcalf,

Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 1:50 pm
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As much of a rush as it is to buy panties, I also feel somewhat uncomfortable about it, yet that declines the more you do it. Though I don't buy them very often, if I do at a Target or Wal-Mart type store I make sure I have a list of other things I need so it seems as if I'm just picking up some things for my wife as well.

I went into a specialty store twice and because they both had websites, I just printed out the page with the panty's of interest on them and brought it with me so that I could ask the clerk where these panties were in the store and if they had the color that my "wife" wanted. They were both very helpful and seem to think your a confused husband just being sweet for doing the shopping for your wife! hehehehe.

#20: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: marshallW, Location: West Palm Beach FL.

Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 5:02 pm
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I love going out and buying Panties Bras & other womens clothes. When i first started to Shop at about 19 yr i got sutch a rush scard & exsited all at the same time. Now sometimes my wife will shop with me & pick out some prity Panties for me to wear for her :) it is qite exciting.

#21: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: gaston,

Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 11:34 pm
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I also shop for panties because of the rush. I mostly enjoy the reaction I can get from the sales women. I usually get three responses. 5% hostile, 90% indifferent and 5% curious. It's the curious 5% I enjoy flirting with and seeing how far I can take it. I have met a few panty playmates this way. In my experiences it seems that women older than 45 and younger than 25 are the most open minded. Just pay attention to visual and audible cues the sales ladies give you when you communicate with them. I try to become a "regular" at small boutiques where the staff is friendly and open to you shopping there.

#22: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: whowhat1,

Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 11:39 pm
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that's the reason why i go and buy them, it's the excitement of it all...

#23: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: pkmoonman, Location: California

Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 4:40 pm
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Going shopp'n!! Heading into the city to shop. My wife and I are going to stop at Victora's Secret, and then to Romantic Sensations. We're looking for matching satin panties. I'll look for some lacy little numbers. I'm wearing a black thong with red lace. Wee picture in Men wearing panties pictures.

#24: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: bipanties,

Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 2:29 am
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vf15012 wrote:

I think many of us panty lovers (or other fetishists) have a thing about not only liking panties but accumulating as many as possible. It's like an addiction as someone said above. For around 20 years I was compelled to buy panties and would do so over and over despite (beause of?) the huge amount of shame and humiliation it caused me. It felt like I was exposing my deepest, darkest secret publicly.

i love panty shopping. i rarely buy but the shopping is a blast. but the wearing and showing off is just as fun.

#25: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: strettyg,

Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 8:32 am
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sharing the same hobby and experience as many of the folks here. I had accumulated around 200 pieces of thongs, g-string, boys short. But only wore less than 20 of them. Most are still brand new with tags.

Enjoyed the rush and the opportunity to flirt with the salegals( but no chance for panty playmates here) But sometime does met with hasty ones that makes me feels vey ashame and guilty ...

#26: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: Brianne, Location: Glasgow, Scotland

Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 2:33 pm
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I also have a panties buying desire and whenever I go into the department stores I can't keep away from the lingerie sections. There are so many great styles in the designer ranges that I would love to have them all. But it would cost me a small fortune. So I have to restrict myself to the occasional purchase - usually from Tesco's Florence and Fred range

#27: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: Brianne, Location: Glasgow, Scotland

Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 2:37 pm
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to qualify the above -

I make occasional purchases of designer panties from the big stores. I go to Tesco for 'everyday' affoprdable purchases.

#28: Re: Buying Fetish? Author: chtorr281, Location: IL

Posted: Tue May 12, 2009 8:01 am
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I love shopping for panties too. Like some others here, I've bought them and just left the tags on them. If I wasn't married I think I'd have a massive collection with the tags still on, just because it's such a rush to go shopping for them. I panty shop with my wife sometimes, but it's just more exciting going by myself. And I have always gone through a checkout lane with a female. Most have always been nice about it. One younger girl kind of teased me about it and asked if they were for me. Sadly I told her "no" but it was obvious she didn't believe me. Another time a woman checker said, after seeing I was kind of nervous, "that wasn't so bad now, was it". She was actually being friendly about it. But mostly they don't care one way or the other. For a long time I would only go to Walmart, Kmart or Target and buy one or two pairs along with a bunch of other items, including men's underwear. Later I got up the courage, usually around Valentine's day or Christmas, to shop at department stores like JCPenney, Sears and Dillards. One time, about a week before Christmas, I drove to a town about an hour from where I live and hit every store I could think of. I think I bought 12 different panties and a couple bras. I would always ask for "gift receipts" at the department stores though. It was a great rush and I always love the reactions or lack of of the sales ladies. I like satin and nylon, mostly hi-cut briefs or bikinis, but I think shapewear is sexy too as long as it's nylon/lycra.

My wife gets into it with me too, which is a lot of fun, but for some reason I still crave going out on my own and buying new panties. Before my wife, I would have thought nothing would be better than buying panties (and playing) with a woman, but there's still something about the rush of buying on my own. Maybe because it's secretive and somewhat shameful. Either way, I still get somewhat nervous, and rarely buy close to where I live in case I would run into someone I knew (though I'll shop with my wife anytime and anywhere).

And for a while I thought nobody else had the same "buying fetish" as me. Hmm. I think I may plan a shopping trip on my next day off from work.

I usually get nervous even on the drive there, but when I'm finally surrounded by panties and bras, it's such a great feeling. And heading out the door after having paid for them is great too. I think this is one fetish of mine that will never go away. That's okay with me, though.

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