married panty wearers

zanteboy · Panty "BRONZE" Joined: Jan 05, 2008 Posts: 2

Hi new to this site, so don't be to hard if i get things wrong.
I love wearing my wifes panties etc, but would love her to know about it. Would love to make love with her while wearing, if anyone else has a wife who knows about your wearing, please advise me how you brought up the subject and how she reacted!!!

imapantylover2 · Panty "PLATINUM" Joined: Oct 29, 2006 Posts: 65

it took me a long time to dream this up..but it worked
she loves to wear my t shirts and since she is large chested she stretches them out so i asked her not to wear them anymore. she said no so i told her if she did not stop i would wear her panties. she thought i was kidding
i did and she was quite suprised..she kind of liked the reaction. i wear with her any time i want....this was over a time span of a few months
it took a lot of time but it worked for me

zanteboy · Panty "BRONZE" Joined: Jan 05, 2008 Posts: 2

thanks for that advise, unfortunatly my wife is abit smaller than me, so will have to think of something else!!!

garth003 · Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 11:30 pm Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

I would suggest just being honest. When me and my wife me i told her i liked panties. she was ok with it cause it was only once in a while. When i decided i wanted to wear 24/7 she was not sure what to think about it. Now two years later she likes me in my panties. She still won't go shopping with me for them but she is ok with me wearing nothing but panties.

Good luck

cracklewalk · Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:05 am Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

Wow.
I guess it really depends on how good of a relationship you have with your wife. This could cause a sore spot between you but, as earlier stated, honesty is the policy. Make sure you tell her that this revelation doesn't change anything. It's who you are and you weren't quite sure how to tell her. Take it from there and let us know how it goes.

C.

snif · Panty "GOLD" Joined: Jun 19, 2006 Posts: 33

i told her before we married. we were on vacation and while fucking i told her i wanted to fuck her while i wore her g string.
a few week latter i showed her all i had collected.
now I wear when ever I like and she helps collect panties with me.

married25 · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Nov 29, 2007 Posts: 10 Location: NC

I've been infatuated with panties for a long time. I love to see my wife in panties, and love to rub my hands all over her panty covered ass. And I love to have sex with her wearing them. When she starts getting underssed for sex, she reaches down to pull her panties off, and I tell her to keep them on, so she does, although if it were up to her, they would be off. So, when I told her I love to jack-off with them, and wear them, I guess it wasn't that big of a suprise. But she still isn't into me wearing them...even after 25 years. When I wear them to bed, and she reaches over to cop a feel, if she feels panties, she rolls over & goes to sleep. Sometimes, I'll ask her to take her panties off & jack me off with them, and she'll give them to me, but won't participate.
It's really frustrating because I want her to share this with her, but she continues to dislike it. Good luck with yours, and for all you guys out there who's wife is into it with you...I envy you all.

PinkPenny · Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 7:09 pm Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

Being a female when my husband told me he enjoyed wearing panties I was ok with his need to wear panties. We sat down and talked about how he felt when wearing panties. Most women think first is my spouse gay. Second they think it is the panties that turn them on during sex instead of them. I want my husband to be happy. So, if you would like to share your need to wear panties with your wife you have to be prepared to address all of her questions. It has not been a issue ever since he told me. In fact I like to buy panties for him when I am out shopping. The one thing that may come up later is he collection grows and grows. I know just looking and buying panties is all part of his fun.

PanLovNor · Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:26 pm Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

I think it is a hit or miss kind of thing. I told my wife about 3 weeks ago that I wanted to wear hers...we've been married for 15 years now. Since then EVERYTHING has been great. She understands that it is a preference that I have and that it is harmless...in fact it has greatly enhanced our private lives and she has even bought some special panties just for me. Comes down to this...how much trust is there in the relationship? I should have trusted more that she'd be cool with it instead of waiting this long.

Good luck

PinkPenny · Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 4:50 pm Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

Good for you!! I think you should buy your own panties. When my husband gets start wearing some of my panties I like to wear on a daily basis and can't find them because he is wearing them It can be a pain. So buy your own and every one will be happy.

cracklewalk · Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:50 am Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

I told my wife the first week we were dating. No secrets.
If she wasn't going to be understanding about it then that would be the end of us.

Size6Bikini · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Dec 23, 2007 Posts: 11

I'm 99% sure my wife knows of my fetish, but it's never been discussed. Honestly, I'm not sure if I want her to know. She brought it up early in our relationship & she said she'd be devistated if another man of hers were into panties, so I stopped messing with them completley. I think it'd be hot to check her out in a sexy pair of panties, instead of the cotton hi-cut briefs she always wears, but I still don't want to bring up the subject. For me, panties are something I like to enjoy on my own.

Freeform · Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 6:39 am Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

I told my wife that I rather see her in panties than naked, that I loved the mystery and also that i really liked panties. She said most men like to see a woman in panties, and I said No I mean I REALLY like panties. She asked me what i meant and I told her that I not only like to see them on women, but i love the way they feel on me. She said she understood the about how nice they feel and didnt see anything wrong with it. The next thing she did was take me shopping and bought me some panties and pantyhose. She said if you like the way panties feel, you will love how pantyhose feel all over your legs too. She was right!

beckyandstu · Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 3:37 pm Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

i guessed long before stu told me he liked to wear my panties, he told me about his fetish and i agreed to let him wear womans pants at weekends, now he wears 99% of the time, its become quite normal now and i still find it sexy to see him in them, so my advice is ask your wife if you can play in her panties

size10plus · Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:10 pm Post subject: Re: married panty wearers

I may have been lucky with my wife. I wore panties off and on before meeting her. I prefer big panties. One day she asked me to try on her bikinis. Of course, I did. She liked the way they looked on me and liked me wearing them when we had sex. She didn't know at the time about my previous panty history. Anyway, I'd go out with her wearing panties all the time. After we were engaged and went to visit the mother in law, I started exploring big panties again. I'd didn't work the big panties into our relationship until about 10 yrs into our marriage. It's 25yrs together and now it is a regular thing.