Respect

Ian_B · Posted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 9:21 am Post subject: Respect

Is it a sign of disrepect to masturbate with someone's panties? Does thinking about them in a sexual way make the situation worse or better?

Brianne · Posted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 11:21 am Post subject: Re: Respect

I have masturbared with my sis-in-law's panties, with my niece's panties, with some of my wife's friends panties - imagining that I was having sex with the woman in question. I did not feel any disrepect and having sexual thoughts about them brought me even more pleasure than an ordinary wank

Freaky · Posted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 12:22 pm Post subject: Re: Respect

I have wrestled with that question most of my adult years as a panty masturbator. I started at age 12 and no moral issues occurred to me until in my twenties. I justify my perverted action by the way I think of the owners of the panties. I am very attracted to them and wish them no harm. Several women have given me their panties, knowing full well what I would do with them. I like, and even love, all of the women so I am secure with my twisted mind.

Fenman · Posted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 8:58 pm Post subject: Re: Respect

I think it goes without saying that, if we all love panties (which I assume we do) then what we do with them masturbationwise is fine.

I would also suggest that many of the folk on this site are a damned site more "normal" than those who appear to criticise!!!

WETPANTIES · Panty "PLATINUM" Joined: Dec 08, 2006 Posts: 164

I agree with Fenman!!!

cracklewalk · Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 2:02 pm Post subject: Re: Respect

Respect the person who owns them, sure but panties are for using. Smile

C.

LoveSatinPanties · Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 12:53 pm Post subject: Re: Respect

I often had the same problem. Wondering if there was a moral issue in using someone's panties to masturbate with. Being a panty lover and masturbator for many years, I've come to realize that I don't care what anyone else would think. Perhaps that has come from now having a lady-friend who knows that I wear panties and that I have masturbated using hers, both while she has watched and when I'm alone.
I also have to agree with Fenman. I'm sure that there are more of us who enjoy wearing and sharing than those who criticize.

Ian_B · Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 10:00 am Post subject: Re: Respect

Thank you to those of you that took the time to consider and answer the question that I asked. I was not making a criticism of those that masturbate using panties. What I sought to discover was your opinion not what others might think.

My first experience of masturbating with a pair of panties was many years ago when I used a pair of my mom's panties. I have used her panties frequently since. I use panties belonging to friends too. So, I wondered if you thought that masturbating with someone's panties was a sign of disrepect for the person who owned the panties. I do not think it is a sign of disrepect, but I wondered if others agreed with me.

cracklewalk · Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 2:54 pm Post subject: Re: Respect

I guess another way to look at it would be to consider how this person would react if they discovered you were using their panties. Depending on the relationship it could be a dealbreaker.

C.

Ian_B · Posted: Mon Jul 20, 2009 3:51 pm Post subject: Re: Respect

I agree with Cracklewalk, no matter how much I might respect the person masturbating with their panties could be a dealbreaker. However, I would hope to keep my activiites secret.

scento · Panty "BRONZE" Joined: May 03, 2009 Posts: 3

with most things fetish or taboo related. 'respectful' behaviour, moral behaviour becomes trickier to define.

generally speaking, for a person to touch, sniff, lick, steal, or look at someones intimate garments in sexual manner without their permission is technically violating their privacy and is wrong.

so for those of us who enjoy the guilty fetish of getting close to someones worn panties, i like to keep my own boundaries.
1.show as much respect as you can to the woman who owns the item by at least NEVER being DETECTED. ...(obviously we all know this but is a basic point and can save nightmares)

2. (if you can be disciplined) AVOID stealing panties from these women you know and see regularly.
unless she has so many identical pairs of panties in the laundry regularly shes bound to notice the theft.

Keeping panties i think is only safest if you are never to see the person again, and even then it should be done discretely so that they dont realise them missing later on.

Try place your self in situations where by you can use the panties for a quick jerk off 'then and there' without being seen.

but in all honesty i guess no one can say to another what respectful is when even the smallest indulgence in panty fetish involves violating someones privacy in some way, especially when it involves stealing them to keep. they are expensive too.

sexyteddybear65 · Posted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 2:47 am Post subject: Re: Respect

well masterbating with someone elses panties is ok if they don't mind it. But to do for spit, I don't think so. You should have some respect to a girl, but when it comes down to our booners, well i guess we just can't hold it, so the next best thing is to masterbate ourselves to full erection into the panties. As long as we have good thoughts about the girl, then its ok. Bad thoughts well then Id be carefull in what i was thinking.
Anyway sex is fun and i see nothing wrong in masterbating in a pair of panties. I do it all the time and i love it. Still do today. The thought of the girl's pussy in those panties turns us on. I mean on big time. It will you too.
But I think your right, there is some need for respect to the girl. I would do it after a few mths of dating. then Id ask her if i could take a pair of her panties and masterbate in them, if she says yes, then go for it.