So I live in the Bible Belt (advice please)

Bikinifiend · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 06, 2007 Posts: 10

Not super comfortable with disclosing my exact location as of yet, but it's safe to say I live in a very southern, conservative, religious area.

The thing is, I know that there are others in my area that are into this thing, there pretty much have to be (I think). I'd like to be able to talk to them, and hang out with them, but I really don't know how to find them. It's not the sort of thing you can just up and ask someone about in polite conversation.

So what do you guys do? Do you just totally keep it to yourselves? Or have you managed to find some outlet for discussion and openness? I mean, this forum does help a bit, but what I am looking for is actual interpersonal communication and understanding.

I know this question is a bit heavy and serious, but it's been bugging me alot recently, and I could use some advice.

Thanks in advance, Bikini

Rescue

North Alabama here :)

sv_swinger

San Francisco Bay area (California) here.

pantycrazy

SF Bay area here as well. I keep my personal panty fetish to myself, with my wife the only other one that knows a little about it.

grannypanty1

Guess..find some gay men..at least they would be open to the bi courious single and married men whom dress with them. Take it that getting undies is still from panty-drawers? Not able to go to department store and buy off rack? Why some of us are pushing for the chat room again. Closest we can come to interpersonal friendship is with private chat or phone chat.

Boils down to someday your going to have to admit it too some of the bible thumpers when cornered. All the secrets and jacking off has a way of being discovered by family and friends in the long run. Remember your fetish is only the 1% of the fetish iceberg. There are a hell of alot of pentacostals doing alot more freaky things then trying on a nice silky Vanity Fair slip...lol

Keep in touch alot of us guys are in the same boat.

Cajunbear3 · Panty "GOLD" Joined: May 27, 2006 Posts: 48 Location: TN

I too live in the "Bible Belt". West TN to be exact. Yes, it is rather difficult to talk on the outside to someone about your desires and wearing women's clothes. But one of the best ways to do this is through this and other websites like this one to hookup with others like us who want to share and be more open to someone else. Willing to help if you want!

LoveSatinPanties

I also live in part of the Bible Belt, conservative Panhandle of Texas, where I'm sure that a man wearing panties would be ostracized severely. Although, I'm sure that I'm not the only man in this area that wears, I just haven't found any that will admit to it.
So I have to keep my proclivity a secret from all but my lady friend. At first it was a surprise to her, but it didn't take long for her to accept it. She enjoys buying for me and I enjoy buying for her.
My advice would be, if you are married, discuss this openly with your wife. Ask her if you could just try on a pair of hers for fun. You might be pleasantly surprised at her reaction.
If you're single, wear them when you feel comfortable doing so. If you have a girlfriend, try the same discussion with her.
Hope you come to a successful resolution to your dilemma.

pretty_in_pink · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Aug 02, 2007 Posts: 10

East TN

nylononme

Upstate South Carolina here. I know exactly what you're talking about. I have to hide my panty fetish from everyone, including my wife who isn't even from the Bible Belt. It would be nice to find someone to talk to about all this, but it's not likely where I live. That's why I turn to sites like this.

Bikinifiend · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 06, 2007 Posts: 10

Anytime you guys want to talk, let me know.....we can meet up on aim or something....I think it'd be good to talk openly for once.

Annabelle · Site Admin Joined: Feb 24, 2006 Posts: 23695

You should try and share it with your wife you could have so much fun.
I found that my closest friends have been great to us with our fetish. You just know the people you can tell. When we told our friends they justed smiled then started to tell us about theirs. You don't realize who many different types of fetish there are out there. All this has help us to carry this magazine on and build our own pantie sites too. But sometimes being secret makes it more of a turn wondering if you are going to get caught. Don't you agree.

Annabelle

Bikinifiend · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 06, 2007 Posts: 10

indeed I do

kd4uvc

8O I do not understand the problem you are having. Do you want to wear panties or do you want to have sex with a man? Wearing panties has not been a problem in the Bible Belt with me. Where I shop, most of the sales associates say they have a large group of men which buy clothing for themselves, lingerie, dresses, women's clothing in general. They try it on to ensure good fit. Most of the places I shop has no problem due to the fact a sale is a sale. I have been measured for a bra in Boaz, AL. This is the place which until a very few years ago had a sign which stated if you were not black, don't be caught here after dark. I am open about wearing lingerie. But, if you looked at me. You would not think that I wear panties either. What I am saying, be nice when buying, do not push yourself if they do not want to help on sales. Relax.

skimpypanties

I live in north carolina, and do a bit of travel in the mid-state area. i would like to get together with another for panty fun. i enjoy skimpy string panties, and occasionally wear hose and belt . if you are interested, i will send you pics. the first time though, i would like to play with just 1 other.

willinsatin · Panty "BRONZE" Joined: Oct 30, 2007 Posts: 2

I can assure you that there are plenty of us guys in the South. Obviously the best way to get connected is through sites like this and others, then you can PM or email and possibly meet in person. It works.