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smellm
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: Jan 24, 2007
Posts: 23
Location: Earth
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 Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 12:23 am Post subject: Does your partner know? |
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To tell or not to tell your partner of many years about your panty fantasies - this has always been an issue for me and I'm sure many others. I have been into panties for about 30 years and married for 20. Have "borrowed" numerous pairs from friends and her family but never kept a large collection for fear of getting caught. She has a great panty collection anyway, maybe I will post some pictures.
Anyway my wife is away at the moment and I sent her an e-mail saying I was very horny, she replied saying what was I going to do about it. So I took the plunge and fessed up and gave her the details of using her panties for a great jack off session and how wonderful they felt on my cock. She seemed a little surprised but wants more details on which ones felt good, which is encouraging.
She knows I love lingerie but not to what extent so hopefully on her return next week we can explore this further. Not sure about telling her about the borrowing though???
Anyone else been through this and what was the response????
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Freaky
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Nov 03, 2006
Posts: 258
Location: Sacramento
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 12:53 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| My wife of nearly 30 years knows of my love of panties. I would keep hers and suck on them while fucking her before we married. She knows I would masturbate on her panties from the hamper. She hasn't known about the many I have "borrowed" over the years and have been fortunate enough to have obtained from understanding women and fellow perverts. It is a petty common fetish. Tell us about your wife, show pictures of her and her panties and undergarments.
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white
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Nov 10, 2005
Posts: 415
Location: U.S.A.
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 2:41 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| Mine has know about me enyoying hers and wearing since we've together, over 37 years, she buys for me, we shop together, enjoy them all the time. Now i would never tell her about my stealing from other women or checking out hampers at other peoples homes, i like the way i have it, don't want to ruin it by her finding out i jack in others panties.
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ROC4FUN
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Mar 03, 2007
Posts: 51
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 6:33 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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i wud have to say dont give it all up w/ the best intrest of the long-run that you havehad moreso dont rat ur sielf out --save it for later..for i know a long loved panty fetish is personal and at most a vry few of mygrl frnds like 2 upposed but went along so i wud b comfortable w/ the citch of panty
wearing and being w/ her and sex was f-n great as ;ithought allwas going in my favor i had gone too far for she or some of my x-es wud only more or less as the b... wud say itts too much . so if your girl is akeeper i wud go slow w/ yhis paticular panty thing as i have learned its so much f-n fun in the long run and always its the best 2 b open w/ the one u sleep with in panties or boxers..every girl ive gone out w/ in the last 10yrs i told her more or less off thebat i love pantys n they dont have any thing to say but tesr my ass as to do you have another pair just let a fine girl go through ur personal panty drawer thats total heaven at best i was up 4 days good luck later roc
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johnb
Panty "GOLD"
Joined: Mar 21, 2007
Posts: 30
Location: australia
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 6:33 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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My partner of 42 years has long known of my panty fet. I once opened my suitcase in Rome to find a pair of her worn panties with a note pinned to them encouraging me to use them for salacious purposes (which I did).
I have a small panty collection which I wear on impulse.
I also have a lover who plays up to my fetish in lots of ways. In particular, when I visit her place she gives me panties to wash which I love doing. I also maintain her panty drawer, a piece of furniture we bought specially for the purpose. I store them ever so carefully and lovingly. When I ring her during the day I ask for a 'colour report' and a description of the pair she is wearing.
I have a library of photos of both of my ladies in their panties. Photoshopped and all.
It's wonderful to have women in one's life who understand the nature of panty fetishism and who play up to it.
john
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knookie
Panty "BRONZE"
Joined: Mar 27, 2007
Posts: 3
Location: Pa
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 11:29 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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Hi
About 6 years ago someone in a music oldies chat room bought up the subject of PANTIES. I wrote a poem about panties as a joke and e-mailed it to regular roomies one of them replied that I failed to mention the THONG so I wrote the THONG POEM. A few weeks later I started recieving PANTIES in the MAIL from some of the ladies in the room .What started put as a JOKE turned into something more i must have recieved close to 100 pair as of now and now I write individual poems for ladies that request them and the charge for the poem is a pair of panties. here are the 2 poems that started it all . I even had them copyrighted
PANTIES
I DREAM OF PANTIES EVERYDAY
FROM LADIES NEAR AND FAR AWAY
I WANT TO HANG THEM ON MY WALL
UP THE STAIRS AND IN THE HALL
RED YELLOW BLACK OR BLUE
MOST ANY COLOR WILL DO
HI CUT LO CUT BIKINI BRIEF
ALL THE DIFFERENT STYLES GOOD GRIEF
SO COME ON LADIES DON'T BE SHY
AND MAIL YOUR PANTIES TO THIS GUY
DON'T BE THE ONE AND ONLY LADY
MAIL THOSE PANTIES ESPECIALLY AIDY
THE THONG
WHILE SITTING HERE WRITING ALONG
I FORGOT ABOUT THE THONG
TWAS TOLD THIS BY MARY MARY
NOW ISNT THAT QUITE CONTRARY
A THONG IS NOT MY FAVORITE THING
NOT MUCH MORE THAN A PIECE OF STRING
WHEN YOU VIEW IT FROM THE BACK
THE STRING IS RIDING IN YOUR CRACK
FROM THE FRONT THERE'S NOT MUCH THERE
IF YOU DON'T SHAVE YOU CAN SEE THE HAIR
SO PLEASE DON'T WEAR THE THONG FOR ME
THE MORE MATERIAL THE BETTER YOU SEE
LET ME SAY JUST ONE LAST THING
THROW AWAY THAT PIECE OF STRING I
i hope you enjoyed reading them
hugybear45
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gary46
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Nov 09, 2005
Posts: 312
Location: SW Pennsylvania
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| Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 3:36 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| smellm, I wear panties now 24/7. Started out playing with mom's panties as a teen not wearing regularly. Got married at 27, and played with the wifes secretly till one night in bed, I was passed out drunk and she slipped some on me and I woke up with her staring at me smiling. I did not realize right away, but when I got out of bed, I realized I had some fine lacey black bikini panties on that I always played with. SHE KNEW! Mental telepathy? Been wearing 24/7 since. I'm glad she figured it out. I love my wife and I have my own panty selaction now. We wear different sizes, so we don't share but have many matching panties. Wearing panties with the wife is very fullfilling and does add to our sex. Good luck with the wife as I know she will just adore you in your panties! Keep us posted! (been wearing 24/7 for 18 years now)
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pantycrazy
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Nov 07, 2005
Posts: 207
Location: PantyLand
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| Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 5:03 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| My wife sorta knows. She knows I like to play with her panties while they are on her and that I like silky undergarments, but she didnt seem to keen on me actually wearing them with her, so I do it without her. I have my own stash and wear them when she is not around. I have specific manly satin undergarments that I wear around her. She didn't seem to like it first, but now she knows it turns me on and dosen't mind. Just can't seem to get her into me wearing womens panties around her. No big deal, many years to work on that!
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LoveSatinPanties
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Mar 13, 2007
Posts: 447
Location: Texas
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| Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 1:59 pm Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| I don't have a wife, but my significant other definitely knows that I wear panties. Because we wear the same size, I very often wear hers or she wears mine. We like to go shopping together and nearly always go somewhere to look at panties.
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meme
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: Apr 15, 2007
Posts: 12
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| Posted: Sun May 06, 2007 1:37 pm Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| I've told a few women i've gone out with and got thte response "your gay then" which i'm not i've concluded that its best i kept it to myself i wanted to try and be honest & open with them because they was women i'd love to have a long relationship with but needless to say it didn't work out because they thought of me as gay and was in denial about my sexuality, I'm not gay, i tried to tell them and explain about my panty fetish maybe its just the women from where i live i've yet to find a woman that would enjoy me in her panties. I consider you all very lucky to have partners that understand and encourage you. Maybe i'll find mine one day and not have to be so secretive.
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Brianne
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: May 05, 2007
Posts: 6096
Location: Glasgow, Scotland
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 11:36 am Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| My wife knows that I love women's panties and that I wear them for a sexual thrill. We occasionally have sex while I wear panties which she says makes me more passionate as my cock is unbelievably hard and thrusting in her pussy
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Avatar0330
Panty "BRONZE"
Joined: Apr 24, 2007
Posts: 7
Location: Fairbanks, Alaska
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 5:32 pm Post subject: Re: Does your partner know? |
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| My girlfriend knows and keeps me in wonderful fantasies and images. She is rarely totally naked when we make love. It is nice to not have the weight of this "secret" on your shoulders - but only when your partner is understanding and accepting. I told my ex, and she said she understood but she wouldn't have anything to do with it...made it more of a weight (anchor!). Much happier with someone who knows, accepts, and even plays along. We shop together, buy together, wear together, trade, etc. It's so much more fun and we continue to be more excited with panties and lingerie than without. I reccomend telling, otherwise it becomes a sour patch in the relationship and you're constantly running and worrying about being caught or found out. And if they can't accept it, it's their loss.
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