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MrDJK
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: Sep 22, 2006
Posts: 16
Location: OKC
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 Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:27 pm Post subject: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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Ok right off the bat no I dont want pictures of your significant other. Now you can send them to me and I won't refuse, but anyway... My question is have you told your wife/girlfriend about your panty fetish. If you have how did you do it? Were you just straight blunt about it or did you casually drop hints for months until she finally got the message? I know everyone's love for panties here varies some more than others.
I am asking this because I have never been able to just come out and say it to any of my girlfriends. That kind of leaves me in a very me in a very unfilled spot in my life. Its something I really really want and need but Im not getting it. Im just trying to look for advice on how to go about getting this out.
Bonus question: Women of this forum would you prefer the outright blunt truth or casual hints?
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CherryPie
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Jan 22, 2006
Posts: 353
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| Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:41 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| If my boyfriend had any kind of fetish I would want the blunt truth. I would not want him to feel the need to sneak around and hide.
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MrDJK
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: Sep 22, 2006
Posts: 16
Location: OKC
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| Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:43 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| Well im not advocating sneaking around or anything like that. I am always monogamous when in a relationshop.
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Freaky
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Nov 03, 2006
Posts: 258
Location: Sacramento
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| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 12:21 am Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| I am an old panty lover of 60, having enjoyed this fetish since age 13. I shared my love of panties with my current wife of 29 years while dating. She would understand my smelling and masturbating on her panties and putting them in my mouth during fuckings. During my years of stupidity, fucking women outside of marriage, I shared my fetish with two girlfriends, both of whom understood and allowed me to masturbate on their undergarments. As the years have progressed, my lack of common sense has prevailed. I now have two former secretaries who give me their dirty panties and a very good friend who loans me his wife's panties for masturbation. (Without her knowlege of course.) I control the fetish. The way I told the women I was fucking that I loved the smell of their pussies and assholes and smelled their panties to remember them. The other conquests were just flat out dumb luck by an old man with women who probably pitied me. I am a lucky old bastard.
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pantyholic
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: May 28, 2007
Posts: 23
Location: US
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| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 12:56 am Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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I've been married for over sixteen years now and I don't remember when I told my wife, but it was no later than a year into our marriage.
She tolerates it well but doesn't pick out panties for me to wear unless she's really in the mood.
I appreciate the level of support I receive, though I fantasize about her requiring me to wear panties.
--The Unrepentant Pantyholic #105
P.S. Freaky, you are one lucky bastard!
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guyuomo
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Jun 29, 2007
Posts: 70
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| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 2:19 am Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| A couple of my girlfriends just discovered my fetish. I think they found my stash of ripped-off panties. Both of them tolerated the fetish to the point of even wearing the heisted panties for me when we fucked. It was awesome for me, but I could sense they were not really getting into it as much as I was ... so it was pure tolerance on their part.
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steve1
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: Dec 19, 2006
Posts: 20
Location: pantie land
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| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:03 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| I just told my wife I liked sniffing panties,she's pretty cool about it sometimes,she's even taken her sisters panties once for me,she's also been a lookout for me while I grabbed a pair,one time she was drinking and I swipped my brothers wifes panties,and she smelled and licked the crotch while we had sex ,that was frigging hot needless to say I did'nt last long before I was over the edge! never been much on wearing panties I just like the smell and taste.
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markojarko
Panty "BRONZE"
Joined: Jul 22, 2007
Posts: 6
Location: usa
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| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:57 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| i wear panties 24/7 and started as a teen sneaking them once and awhile.I have been married 3 times and this is my 3rd and final marrige.i say that because of several reasons but it comes down to finding my prefect open minded match.i dont remember when and how i told my first two wives about my panty fetish but they too were tolerate but didnt show intrest.this wife is a different story.i decided to be open and hones when we were first dateing when she asked bluntly about any sexual turn-ons i liked and enjoyed and she told me hers.it was the best thing i ever did.i allways wear panties even her dirtied ones.when we shop we shop for the both of us and she even holds them up to size me in front of stangers which of course blows my mind and excites me to no end.she picks out which panties i am to wear each and everyday.i also have anothe fetish she enjoy's with me as well it is in my profile.so be honest and if you have a solid relationship the panties will prevail trust me.if you want to slowly tell he you might try to let her catch you smelling hers and then spiil the beans.good luck
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LoveSatinPanties
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Mar 13, 2007
Posts: 447
Location: Texas
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| Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 5:41 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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I had been dating my current lady friend for about two months before she found out about my liking to wear panties. We had never discussed the fact and I only on rare occasions would wear when I was with her. We both had roving hands and I didn't want to turn her off.
I had to be out of town for several days and I asked her if she would give me a pair of her panties to take with me as a reminder of her. She thought it was an unusual request but gave me a pair of satin full cut briefs. I had always told her that those were my favorite for her to wear. She told me that the only way that she would let me have them would be if I returned them to her with something of my own in them. I knew what she meant.
When I returned from my trip, I went to her house for a visit. She asked me if I had done what she wanted and I told her that I had. She asked me to produce them and that is when I showed her that I was wearing them.
Needless to say, she was very surprised. At first she was angry and then she thought it very sexy.
That is when I told her that I loved wearing panties. She still wasn't sure about my proclivity, but has since grown to be very supportive.
We now share on a regular basis as we like the same styles.
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MRBADDOGUSA
Panty "SILVER"
Joined: Dec 04, 2005
Posts: 22
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| Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 11:14 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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The way I figure it is that unless you tell her what you want you won't get it (or it will be awfully frustrating trying to get it).
My wife doesn't really understand the lure but she'll at least endulge me in my little fantasies. I'm mainly into looking (not sniffing, wearing, etc.) and by simply asking her, for example, to sit with her knees up so I can see her panties, I get her to sit with her knees up so I can see her panties.
Once she even took me over to the park and turned a bunch of cartwheels wearing my favorite bright white cotton panties under her little skirt. That was a turn-on for sure that never would've happened without me telling her I love seeing her in her panties.
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chabaca
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: Dec 19, 2006
Posts: 66
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| Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:03 am Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| My wife got me started on wearing about 10 yrs. ago while I was waiting to have knee surgery... We were fooling around one night & asked me if I'd ever worn panties or jacked off with panties, well I hadn't till that night, & now whenever I feel the need to take care care of things or when it's her time of the month, I ALLWAYS wear panties!!!! I'm wearing yellow HHW nylon hicuts right now!!!
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liefhebber3
Panty "BRONZE"
Joined: Jun 14, 2007
Posts: 2
Location: amsterdam
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| Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 4:28 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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When I started a relation with my girlfriend, now wife, she had full cotton panties,it did'n t turn me on. On one day we do shopping in a mall and I took her to the lingerie department.There were a lot of nice panties, see through , I said I liked that, so we buy some. From that day on, good sex with panties. Be honest to your girlfriend /wife what you like in bed.
If you are lucky, she likes it to.
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athongsniffr
Panty "PLATINUM"
Joined: May 10, 2006
Posts: 137
Location: the hamper USA
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| Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 5:21 am Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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the first panty experience i had with 1 of my ex girlfriends and it happend about 2months after we hookd up, we were housesitting for one of her cute friends and we ended up getin alil tipsy and i told her i was n2 sniffin undies and after laughing at me and telling me i was a perv she let me hav a pair b4 we left. later on after sum begging she "borrowed" several pairs from that same girl (always super sweaty damp vs thongs) mmm and one from the girls mother (big musky cotton briefs) mmm!
a few months later my gf had her friend over to spend the night and they got pretty drunk out one deck talking girlie stuff (i thought) so around 1am they came in and sat on the couch and started talking to me, her friend was wearing a skirt and was sitting with her legs pretty open, i couldnt quit staring as she was talking to my gf then she faced me giggled and said "wanna sniff" and spread her legs wide open then erupted into laughter!!
i was embarassed even though she kept saying it was no big deal but it turned out she just thought it was funny but it didnt really bother her and my gf was the one who made such a bigdeal out of me doing it and told sevral of her friends that i was a perv and i probably wanted to sniff their panties and (sshhh i already had been hehe)...so after thanking her for the pussy she gave me we broke up and i still see her old friend (shes married) from time to time and she is always really friendly to me but i just cant work up the nerve to ask her for another pair!!
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happy71
Panty "BRONZE"
Joined: Aug 12, 2007
Posts: 4
Location: ky
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| Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 2:43 pm Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| I told my wife about my fetish about 8 years into our marriage. She is totally cool with it. She would put her dirty panties on my head so the crotch is on my nose while we get it on. she has even got me a pair of her moms dirty panties for me to sniff. that was hot!!
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wrigley
Panty "BRONZE"
Joined: Sep 04, 2007
Posts: 2
Location: CA, USA
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| Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 12:44 am Post subject: Re: ATTN: Married Guys or dudes with girlfriends |
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| I've told my girlfriend how much i like her in panties, as soon as she knew she asked would i prefer that she wear them to bed. I said yes and from that day on she always has. I dont actually like the style she likes and havent yet convinced her to change, but from my experiance the more honest you are the better you'll be rewarded.
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