Out of Control

weirdo · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 02, 2008 Posts: 10

I've read a lot of the posts here, and have learned a lot. For starters, I've learned that this obsession should not control me; however, I feel Iâ€™m getting in a little too deep.

Help.

Since as long as I can remember, I've been fascinated with panties. Just about every opportunity I've had to touch, sniff, or wear someoneâ€™s panties I have done so. I have lifted a few pair here and there, but mostly just sniff and release.

This has been going on for at least 20 years. The fascination comes and goes, but every time I'm presented an opportunity to privately get a sniff of someoneâ€™s panties, I have done so. While babysitting their kids, at dinner invitations to their house (laundry room and bathroom are same room) in years past, I've even let myself into their house to get a sniff while they were away. I don't know that I have the self control to modify this behavior, if presented with an opportunity that I felt to be reasonably safe.

The fear of getting caught is getting to be too much, I've gotten more daring over the past few years, but I'm starting to think this is getting out of hand. The last thing I want or need is to be ousted as a perv, this would be devastating.

So how do I keep this in check?

Brianne · Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 3:15 pm Post subject: Re: Out of Control

very difficult, depends on who catches you.

My sister in law caught me rummaging through her panty drawer one day. She didn't say anything, I didn't say anything, I just said Hi and left the room. She never mentioned the incident after that and as far as I know she has not told anyone, especially my her sister who is my wife.

I just think you have to be very very careful if you are venturing into other people's privacy.

weirdo · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 02, 2008 Posts: 10

Brianne wrote:

very difficult, depends on who catches you.

My sister in law caught me rummaging through her panty drawer one day. She didn't say anything, I didn't say anything, I just said Hi and left the room. She never mentioned the incident after that and as far as I know she has not told anyone, especially my her sister who is my wife.

I just think you have to be very very careful if you are venturing into other people's privacy.

I totally agree, and I've been very careful, sniffed countless panties in the past 20 years, and have not been busted at all. However lately, I've become more daring, taking greater risks because opportunities are not as abundent as they once were. The last pair I took could have landed me in some big trouble, and looking back on it, I acted totally out of character, and did not have the ability to stop the wrong behavior before it got out of hand.

tang · Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 8:21 pm Post subject: Re: Out of Control

I'd say that if you question your own morality while thinking about something you think you might do, it might be a good idea NOT to follow through with your plans. I'd say that B&E'g would be too far no matter what though, heh.
My two pennies,
tang

weirdo · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 02, 2008 Posts: 10

tang wrote:

I'd say that if you question your own morality while thinking about something you think you might do, it might be a good idea NOT to follow through with your plans. I'd say that B&E'g would be too far no matter what though, heh.
My two pennies,
tang

B&E'g ???

I agree, that is why I'm concerned. I did question my own morality, and knew what I was doing was wrong, and had huge consequences, but did it anyway, against my own knowing. I got away with it, and all turned out well, but I'm afraid that because I got away with it, I'd either try it again, or up the ante.

cracklewalk · Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:33 pm Post subject: Re: Out of Control

Real simple: Either you get caught, possibly get arrested or you go out and start buying them for yourself. Believe me, the latter is better.

C.

talon430 · Panty "GOLD" Joined: Apr 28, 2007 Posts: 26

weirdo wrote:

tang wrote:

I'd say that if you question your own morality while thinking about something you think you might do, it might be a good idea NOT to follow through with your plans. I'd say that B&E'g would be too far no matter what though, heh.
My two pennies,
tang

B&E'g ???

I agree, that is why I'm concerned. I did question my own morality, and knew what I was doing was wrong, and had huge consequences, but did it anyway, against my own knowing. I got away with it, and all turned out well, but I'm afraid that because I got away with it, I'd either try it again, or up the ante.

B&E is a simple term meaning Breaking and entering, either that or bacon and eggs

Lace13 · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Nov 15, 2007 Posts: 12

well heres a little tip:
If your'e in a place where you can j/o just have a quick wank and after you cum, your head will be a lot clearer. Ive used this a few times to resist situtaions where I know are way too high risk. Sometimes Wanking to the thought of what you want to do is actually hotter than going through with it. Ive had situations where I am so turned on Im about to explode while stealing the panties and then when I get home and get a chance to wank in them its not as exhilerating

pan_tyman · Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 8:39 am Post subject: Re: Out of Control

Wise Words indeed Lace 13. I remember a time years ago I went to 'borrow' some knickers from a washing line late at night and came in my pants from the sheer excitment of doing it. I haven't tried anything so risky since. My life would be not worth living if I was caught doing such a thing.

gaston · Panty "GOLD" Joined: Sep 03, 2006 Posts: 35

In my younger days I would constantly throw caution to wind. I was taking panties from laundromats, backyard clothes lines, drawers & hampers, and even department stores. For a while I was even bold, or stupid enough, to take upskirt pix with my digi-cam. I know for a fact that the reason I've scaled back is because I got caught a couple of times, by an Aunt and my best friend's sister. Nothing serious happened, but it was enough to make me pause before I committed to doing something I might regret. The question I continually ask my self is "Is this worth getting caught over?" and most of the time I walk away because I am not willing to accept the risks associated with getting busted.

whowhat1 · Panty "PLATINUM" Joined: Nov 11, 2005 Posts: 412

i remember when i used to live in my old house there was a neighbor a few doors down.she always and i mean always would put her panties on the clothes line...even leave them out overnight where anybody who's anybody can simply take them and casually walk away with them.she had alot and i mean ALOT of nylon and satin panties,she had these one set of nylon panties that i always wanted to grab, they were a biege or tan color,really shiny too.i always thought how they would look maybe on me or my ex-girlfriend,of course as many chances as i had to grab them i simply could not because i was always afraid i was going to get caught by her or the police because since i lived in a row home we had police that would constantly drive down the street and even in the alley ways to monitor everything every hour on the hour..pretty much if i had of taken them and got caught especially by the police i would of been fucked 6 ways from sunday.

Lace13 · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Nov 15, 2007 Posts: 12

^ sounds a bit like she wanted someone to steal them. we shouldnt forget that guys arent the only ones with this fetish

weirdo · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 02, 2008 Posts: 10

Lace13 wrote:

well heres a little tip:
If your'e in a place where you can j/o just have a quick wank and after you cum, your head will be a lot clearer. Ive used this a few times to resist situtaions where I know are way too high risk. Sometimes Wanking to the thought of what you want to do is actually hotter than going through with it. Ive had situations where I am so turned on Im about to explode while stealing the panties and then when I get home and get a chance to wank in them its not as exhilerating

Great advice, sometimes easier that others..

Freeform · Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:02 pm Post subject: Re: Out of Control

i have given up stealing and peeking just for that reason. The consequences of getting caught was not worth the action. I still love to play with panties, if given a chance with NO possibliity of getting caught i might find myself indulging in my passion. But I have gone from stealing to buying them, and have found that is just as exciting as stealing them, because you are presenting your prize to a woman and paying her for them. I now have a rather large collection of panties and still am buying more because i just love the feeling of a brand new panty on me. I say give it up if it makes you feel guilty or your worrying about getting caught, and start buying them, find a new avenue for those feelings that are uncontrolable. This site helps me too, cuz i get to see pics of other womens pantydrawers, and i just love looking at those with no chance of getting caught! Enjoy your passion, dont regret it!

weirdo · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Apr 02, 2008 Posts: 10

buying them isn't the same for me, I have done it, and did enjoy it a bit, but knowing the owner of that panties is what makes them special for me. That along with the old car smell is what really makes this fettish for me.

For now, I'm just laying low, and looking for no risk opportunities. My last few peeks, and grabs, just got me in too deep. Luckily no harm.