Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 9:53 pm Post subject: Now What?
So over the past couple of months my gf has really gotten into my panty fetish. It started out by me taking off her panties and telling her how good they smell, she seems to get excited when I tell her this. Its gotten to the stage where she'll come home from work and tell me that she was secreting all day and she wants me to smell her panties. Its awesome. I've convinced her to buy some soft nylon panties to stroke me off with and she went for that without hesitation. Recently I've been asking her to put her dirty panties around my balls when she rides me. I love how it feels around my nuts. When shes riding me I tell her I love wearing her panties this usually sends her into an orgasm. So last night were fooling around and decided to pick things up later in the night, and she asked me to put on my silky boxers. They have a satin feel to them I call them my manpanties. I decided to get a little bold, when she left the room I put a pair of her panties on. When we resumed things later in the night she took of my pants and I was wearing her panties. She said that does not turn her on whatsoever. I was confused. She said she almost didn't want to fool around anymore. Anways things progressed, we had sex, and it was my turn to get off. She took out a pair of bikini panties put them on, sat on my face and started to jerk me off. She said I was bad and I was being punished. I said for what? For wearing my panties you have your own underwear. She kept saying that until I exploded. To me she seemed interested in my fetish but when it comes to me wearing her panties she is turned off. How do I get her to change her mind?
Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 11:24 pm Post subject: Re: Now What?
* There is a good chance that she will not change her mind. It is probably just be somthing that she will never be interested in. You could try again and take more of her sexy "punishment" or just flat out ask her.
Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 6:15 am Post subject: Re: Now What?
It might be like my wife, she doesn't object to me wearing her panties, but it doesn't do anything for her. I think she see's it as women's clothing and a man in it makes her see me as less virile. If I wear men's silk brief's it excites her very much. I haven't been able to find any we both like for quite some time though and mine have all been wore out for some time.
Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 7:09 pm Post subject: Re: Now What?
Well, Sniffer-- I have to agree with the Pie on this. There's a chance she will not change. But on the flip side of the same coin there's also the chance she will change over time. People, after all, do change, and sexual preferences have a tendency to grow to acommodate circumstances and sexual partners.
I also like Cherry's other point, however -- if all else fails, try talking about it with her. You might just find some lurking clues to what she, and you are really all about. After all, Cherry has just started opening up enough to tell us pervs that she enjoys wearing Hanes Her Way panties. That little tid-bit brightened up my whole afternoon!
Thanks, Cherry Pie, and Sniffer -- try talking while you sniff. And let us all know what you discover.
Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 3:47 pm Post subject: Re: Now What?
She probably won't. I for one, was a swinger with my girlfriend. When we went to the club, and hooked up with couples, I would ask what kind of panties the lady wore. If she didn't have any one, or doesn't, I would lose interest fast.
Some guys like women totally naked, no panties at all.
Some guys like tits, others like asses, some guys like fat chicks, others like skinny, some guys like guys, etc. Its all a matter of personal preference.
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 2:00 am Post subject: Re: Now What?
I had a similar experience with my now-ex wife. I had a fully developed panty fetish long before we were married but never told her about it and tossed my stash before we got married. Not too long into the marriage, I really needed to revisit my panty fetish and found some satisfaction in shopping for panties for her and then making sure she wore them when we had sex. I made it clear how much I liked them and that they added a lot to the experience.
She also discovered that she liked it when I wore silky underwear and started buying me bikinis made for men. Although I enjoyed that, it wasn't the same as panties to me. My fetish is much more than just about material. Once, when buying her some new panties, I decided to buy myself a pair and surprise her with me wearing them. It surprised her, alright! She could not understand at all why I would wear panties and made it pretty clear that she didn't like it.
Still, she continued to stimulate me with her panties and slips and silky nighties and liked me wearing silky men's underwear. That became a regular part of our sex life. This went on for a couple years. My wife could have multiple orgasms, so I always made sure she had a couple before I would let her take care of me. Then, when she would make me cum, I could relax and enjoy the feel of her rubbing me with silky lingerie. One time, I grabbed her panties that I had removed earlier (I had come to be naked) and put them on. She enjoyed rubbing me through two layers of material and it didn't seem to bother her that time that I was wearing panties. Maybe because they were hers? Eventually, over the course of several months, she got used to me putting on her panties and it became pretty standard. She never got to the point of buying me any panties and I never tried to buy any of my own, but she did get used to me wearing them for sex.
I continued to buy her panties throughout our 10 years of marriage. LOTS of panties since I found it very stimulating to buy them. When we finally got divorced our sex life, which had started out pretty badly, had gotten quite good. I think she had finally figured out just how much I liked panties though, because she offered to let me take any of the ones I'd bought her that she didn't plan to wear in the future. :)
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